#3. Be a peacemaker: That’s right. Creating the marriage you want is possible if you are willing to be a peacemaker. Now, that doesn’t mean that you have to let your spouse have his or her way all the time, or that you have to be submissive and quiet. It simply means that you consistently recognize that your relationship with, and commitment to your husband or wife is far more important than any misunderstanding or disagreement that may come up. And that you choose to be tactful, kind, and respectful in the way you disagree.
One of the best ways for you to create peace and harmony at home is to watch the words that come out of your mouth, and the tone of voice you choose to use. Thumper, from the Disney Classic, Bambi, said it best, “If you can’t say something nice…don’t say nothing at all.” So, choose to watch your words. Bite your tongue. Lower your voice. And beware of criticism and nagging.
Seek to create peace by being first to say “I’m sorry,” and by always being quick to forgive. As you choose peace over contention in your marriage, you will find that the “happily,” part of “happily ever after,” comes more quickly than you may have expected. And that is a VERY good thing.
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